Hi Kesselhaus,
I can understand what problem you are facing with eclipse. I had faced the same issues with eclipse (Galileo and Helios) 4 years back when i use to work with AUTOSAR 3.x and 4.x and on both ASW and BSW stack of it. At that time providing 512MB of RAM for eclipse use to be a big thing.
At that time ARTOP's EMF model for the Autosar 3.x and 4.x use to consume a lot of memory.
In my opinion, expecting Eclipse foundation to keep and eye on all the plugins contributed to eclipse for it's performance is a very unrealistic thing.
Personally over the time i have learned java and have started modifying eclipse platform to suit my needs.
For you i can suggest that keep an eye on the things which makes your eclipse run slow.
For example :
1. Keep different eclipse instance with specific set of plugins( This makes eclipse more responsive)
2. Keep the projects closed in the workspace on which you are not working immediately (This will keep the memory usage low in eclipse) .
3. If you are using any Version Control plugins (like SVN or CVS) then switch of their decorators if possible. ( This will improve performance of eclipse) .
4. Increase memory for eclipse, more than 1GB if you are using a 64 bit OS and having more RAM available in your machine.
Vishal